Shadi karne Pitri laga itcha

Biya laga kotha te tai khan likhi kene pucha prosno khan laga jowab: mota aru maiki ekjon-ekjon ke nijor laga gaw dibo lage, biswasi khan biswas nakora mota nohoile maiki thakibole mon thakile taike chari nadibo, aru etiya laga dukh-kosto homoi te jineka ase teneka thaka bhal ase. Ki obostha te bhi thakile, amar Pitri logot oitu te he thakibi.

Adhyay 7.

Etiya, tumikhan ki likhise, eitu laga kotha: “Manuh ekjon pora maiki ke nachuwa, eitu bhal ase.” Kintu bebichar laga paap pora bachibole, prottek mota laga nijor maiki thakibo lage, aru prottek maiki laga nijor mota thakibo lage. Mota pora nijor maiki ke tai laga hok dibo lage, aru etinehe maiki pora nijor mota ke dibo lage. Maiki laga nijor gaw uporte tai laga adhikar nai—kintu mota laga ase; etinehe mota laga nijor gaw uporte tar adhikar nai—kintu maiki laga ase. Ekjon pora ekjon ke nabanchit koribi, khali duijon mili kene thik kora homoi karne prathana te nijor ke dibole; tetiya aru eke logote mili jabi, eneka hoile tumikhan nijor ke rakhibo napara karne Saitan pora tumikhan ke porikha nakoribo. Moi eitu anumoti nisena he koi ase, hukum nisena nohoi. Moi itcha kore sob manuh bhi moi nisena hoile bhal thakibo. Kintu sob manuh ke amar Pitri pora nijor nijor bordan dise—kunba eneka, kunba oneka. Shadi nakora khan aru bidhowa khan ke moi koi ase, tarkhan nimite moi nisena thaka tu bhal ase. Kintu jodi tarkhan nijor ke rakhibo napare, tene hole shadi koribo lage—kilemane itcha pora juli thaka pora shadi kora bhal ase. Shadi kora khan ke moi hukum di ase—moi nohoi, kintu Prabhu pora—maiki ekjon pora nijor mota ke charibo nalage. Kintu jodi tai alag hoi jai, tene hole shadi nakori kene thakibo lage, nahole nijor mota logote milai jabo lage—aru mota ekjon pora nijor maiki ke tyag koribo nalage.

Baki khan ke moi koi ase (moi, Prabhu nohoi): jodi ekjon bhai laga biswas nakora maiki ase aru tai logote thakibole mon ase, tene hole tai ke tyag koribo nalage. Jodi ekjon maiki laga biswas nakora mota ase aru tai logote thakibole mon ase, tene hole tai ke tyag koribo nalage. Kilemane biswas nakora mota tu maiki pora pobitro kori diya hoise, aru biswas nakora maiki tu bhai pora pobitro kori diya hoise. Nahole tumikhan laga bacha khan letera hobole thakise, kintu etiya tarkhan pobitro ase. Jodi biswas nakora jon alag hoi jai, tene hole tai ke jabole dibi; eneka homoi te bhai nahole bhoini bandhi kene nai. Amar Pitri pora tumikhan ke shanti nimite matise. He maiki, tumi nijor mota ke bachabo na nai, eitu tumi kineka jane? Nahole he mota, tumi nijor maiki ke bachabo na nai, eitu tumi kineka jane?

Khali, Prabhu pora jun ke jineka dise aru amar Pitri pora jineka matise, tineka prottek jon jibon koribi. Sob mondoli khan te moi eneka he niyom di ase. Kunba ke mata homoi te sunnot kori kene thakise na? Tai eitu ulta nakoribi. Kunba ke mata homoi te sunnot nakori kene thakise na? Tai sunnot koribo nalage. Sunnot kora eku nohoi, sunnot nakora bhi eku nohoi, kintu amar Pitri laga hukum khan mani kene thaka tu he dangor ase. Prottek jon ke jineka halot te matise, tineka te he thakibo lage. Tumi ke ekjon noukar thaka homoi te matise na? Eitu laga chinta nakoribi. Kintu jodi tumi ajadi pabo pare, tene hole eitu le lobi. Prabhu bhitor te mata noukar tu Prabhu laga ajadi kora manuh ase; etinehe, mata ajad manuh tu Khrista laga noukar ase. Tumikhan ke daam di kene kinise; manuh khan laga noukar nahobi. Bhai khan, prottek jon ke mata homoi te jun jineka halot te thakise, tai ta te he amar Pitri logote thakibo lage.

Shadi nakora khan laga kotha te, moi logote Prabhu pora hukum nai, kintu Prabhu laga doya pora biswasi bona ekjon nisena moi nijor bisar diye. Etiya laga digdari homoi nimite, ekjon manuh jineka ase tineka thaka tu bhal ase, eneka moi bhabe. Maiki logote bandhi kene ase na? Chuti bisar nakoribi. Maiki pora ajad ase na? Maiki bisar nakoribi. Kintu jodi tumi shadi kore, tumi paap kora nai; jodi ekjon kumari pora shadi kore, tai paap kora nai. Kintu eneka manuh khan gaw-mangso te dukh pabo, aru moi tumikhan ke eitu pora bachabole mon kore. He bhai khan, moi eitu koi ase: thik kora homoi tu chutu hoi jaise. Etiya pora, junkhan laga maiki ase, tarkhan maiki nathaka nisena thakibi, aru junkhan kandi ase, tarkhan nakanda nisena, aru junkhan khushi kore, tarkhan khushi nakora nisena, aru junkhan kine, tarkhan eku na thaka nisena, aru junkhan prithibi ke babohar kore, tarkhan eitu te dubi nathaka nisena thakibi—kilemane etiya laga prithibi laga rup tu paar hoi ja ase.

Moi tumikhan ke chinta pora ajad thaka ke mon kore. Shadi nakora mota tu Prabhu laga kaam laga chinta kore, kineka Prabhu ke khushi koribo. Kintu shadi kora mota tu prithibi laga jinis khan laga chinta kore, kineka nijor maiki ke khushi koribo, aru tar mon dui bhag hoi jaise. Shadi nakora maiki nahole kumari tu Prabhu laga kaam laga chinta kore, gaw aru atma te pobitro hobole; kintu shadi kora maiki tu prithibi laga kaam laga chinta kore, kineka nijor mota ke khushi koribo. Moi eitu tumikhan laga bhal nimite koi ase, tumikhan ke bandhi bole nohoi, kintu thik niyom te thaka nimite aru mon alag nakori kene Prabhu ke bhokti kora nimite.

Jodi kunba bhabe tai laga shadi koribole thik kora chukri ke tai thik nakori ase, aru tar itcha bisi hoi ase aru eitu hobole lage, tene hole tai nijor mon te ki itcha kore, tineka koribi—tarkhan ke shadi koribole dibi; eitu paap nohoi. Kintu jun manuh nijor mon te thik thaki kene thake, kun bhi pora jor nakori kene, kintu nijor itcha uporte adhikar rakhi kene, aru nijor chukri ke rakhibole mon te thik korise, tai bhal kore. Etu nimite jun pora nijor chukri ke shadi kore, tai bhal kore; aru jun pora tai ke shadi nakore, tai aru bhi bhal kore.

Maiki ekjon tar mota jinda thaka tak tar logote bandhi kene ase; jodi tar mota mori jai, tene hole tai kun ke itcha kore tai logote shadi koribole ajad ase, khali Prabhu bhitor te he. Kintu jodi tai jineka ase tineka thaki jai, tene hole tai aru bhi khushi thakibo, eneka moi bhabe. Aru moi bhabe moi logote bhi amar Pitri laga Atma ase.