Our Father Tests Hearts
Households under strain: quarrels better dropped than won, a prudent servant outranking a shameful son, grandchildren as an old man's crown. It notices what rebuke does, sinking deeper into a discerning man than a hundred blows into a fool, and prizes the friend who stays.
17 1Better a dry crust eaten in peace than a house full of feasting with strife. 2A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son and will share the inheritance among the brothers. 3The crucible is for silver and the furnace for gold, but our Father tests hearts. 4An evildoer listens to wicked lips; a liar listens to a destructive tongue. 5Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker; whoever gloats over disaster will not go unpunished. 6Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their parents. 7Fine speech is not fitting for a fool—still less are lying lips for a noble. 8A bribe seems like a magic charm to the one who gives it; wherever he turns, he thinks he will succeed. 9Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but whoever keeps bringing it up separates close friends. 10A rebuke goes deeper into a person of understanding than one hundred blows into a fool. 11A rebellious man seeks only evil, and a cruel messenger will be sent against him. 12Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool in his foolishness. 13If anyone returns evil for good, evil will never leave his house. 14Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam, so drop the dispute before it bursts out. 15Whoever justifies the wicked and whoever condemns the righteous—both alike are detestable to our Father. 16Why should a fool have money in hand to buy wisdom, when he has no heart to learn? 17A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of trouble. 18One who lacks sense shakes hands on a pledge and puts up security for his neighbor. 19Whoever loves wrongdoing loves strife; whoever builds his gate high invites destruction. 20A crooked heart finds no good, and a twisted tongue falls into trouble. 21Whoever fathers a fool brings grief on himself; the father of a godless fool has no joy. 22A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. 23A wicked man takes a bribe in secret to pervert the ways of justice. 24A discerning person keeps wisdom in view, but the eyes of a fool wander to the ends of the earth. 25A foolish son is a grief to his father and bitterness to the mother who bore him. 26To punish the righteous is not good, nor to flog the noble for their integrity. 27Whoever holds back his words has knowledge, and one with a calm spirit is a person of understanding. 28Even a fool who keeps silent is thought wise; when he closes his lips, he seems discerning.