Death and Life in the Tongue
Speech and isolation. Words are deep waters carrying death or life, a fool's mouth is his own snare, and answering before listening is shame. It notes that whoever states his case first sounds right until questioned, and that an offended brother is hard to win.
18 1Whoever isolates himself pursues his own desire; he lashes out against all sound wisdom. 2A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in airing his own opinions. 3When wickedness comes, contempt comes too, and with dishonor comes reproach. 4The words of a person's mouth are deep waters; the fountain of wisdom is a flowing stream. 5It is not good to show partiality to the wicked, denying justice to the righteous. 6A fool's lips bring strife, and his mouth invites a beating. 7A fool's mouth is his ruin, and his lips are a snare to his soul. 8The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down into the inmost being. 9Whoever is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys. 10The name of our Father is a strong tower; the righteous runs into it and is safe. 11A rich man's wealth is his fortified city; in his imagination it is like a high wall. 12Before destruction the human heart is proud, but humility comes before honor. 13If one answers before he listens, it is his foolishness and his shame. 14A person's spirit can sustain him through sickness, but a crushed spirit—who can bear it? 15The discerning heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks it out. 16A person's gift opens the way for him and brings him before important people. 17The first to state his case seems right, until another comes and examines him. 18Casting the lot settles disputes and separates strong opponents. 19An offended brother is harder to win than a fortified city, and disputes are like the bars of a fortress. 20From the fruit of a person's mouth his stomach is satisfied; with the yield of his lips he is filled. 21Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit. 22He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from our Father. 23The poor person pleads for mercy, but the rich answers harshly. 24A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.