A Father's Warning
A frank warning about adultery, followed to its end: honor handed to strangers, years spent, a body worn out, and a man saying too late that he hated correction. The turn is positive. Delight in your own wife, and know that our Father watches every path.
5 1My son, pay attention to my wisdom; listen closely to my understanding, 2so that you may guard discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge. 3For the lips of the forbidden woman drip honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil, 4but in the end she is bitter as poison, sharp as a double-edged sword. 5Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold of the grave. a a v5 Sheol: the Hebrew word for the realm of the dead — the grave, the unseen world below. 6She gives no thought to the path of life; her ways wander, and she does not know it.
7And now, my sons, listen to me, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth. 8Keep your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house, 9lest you give your honor to others and your years to one who is cruel, 10lest strangers take their fill of your strength, and your hard-earned labors go to the house of a foreigner, 11and at your end you groan, when your flesh and body are consumed, 12and you say, "How I hated discipline, and my heart despised correction! 13I did not listen to the voice of my teachers or heed my instructors. 14I was at the brink of utter ruin in the midst of the assembled congregation."
15Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well. 16Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? 17Let them be yours alone, and not shared with strangers. 18May your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, 19a loving doe, a graceful deer. May her love satisfy you always; may you be captivated continually by her love. 20Why then, my son, should you be captivated by a forbidden woman and embrace another man's wife?
21For a man's ways are before the eyes of our Father, and he examines all the man's paths. 22The wicked are caught by their own wrongdoing and held fast in the cords of their sin. 23He will die for lack of discipline, and he will go astray because of his great foolishness.